Need some input, withdrawals?

My husband and I are both getting off of oxycodone 15-30mgs and it sucks so much, if you ever have the chance to try this.....DONT!! Itll ruin not only your life but anyone in your life like a loving relationship. We both know well be and are going through hell but it seems there is no end in sight, its been 3 weeks probably if not a lil more and the mood swings, anger, depression and much more is so strong you almost wana commit suicide (not that we ever would) but just to give you an idea. Weve taken several suboxin then methadone, they worked ok but seems like theres never enough plus u dont wna get addicted to them. Its terrible, does anyone know of anything that will help at all? Please let me know if you do, anything to feel normal and be happy again ive never felt the same. BUT the worst thing is my huband, he has been so hateful and nasty to me its ridiculous. last week we didnt talk for about 3 days and i finally sent him a msg sayin i couldnt take his attitude anymore and he told me he was so miserable he didnt wana be marrid anymore he wants to go party w his friend he used to have and he cant have fun with me. SO we decided he would leave since i have 2 kids 2take care of. I packed his things an we he got home from work he packed ALL his things and went to a hotel, the whole time I tried to explain to him it wasnt me iI helped him pt was the withdrawals still. He kept saying he was sick of my face and tired of being miserable and im to outspoken and wants me to shut the **** up. And he cant be happy with anymore that im the reason hes not single & happy. Hed also rather sit on a bench alone all day then have to see me again and hes to that point with me he cant stand me. So I helped him pack his car and reminded him that I clean the house everydqy, vacuum, cook for him & the kids and make sure all his work clothes are clean, pay the bills an since im a stay at home mom i take & pick up my son from pre k and do things with his class too. MY husband then began 2 say more nasty things. He also took 1/2 our money and put n a sole acct for him. he left at 10p fri night saying he was miserable with me n we were over for good, i told him this hole thing was stupid but not gona stop him from goin if he wanted but i loved him and he said ok im niot in llove w you nemore and stormed out. I cried alot that nite and alot and saturday went 2 a friends and came home, he sent me a msg at midnight saying he hoped the kids were good and he hates that its gotten to this point, i ignored him. Again at 5:50AM HE said what do u not have time to talk, im just tryn 2 b nice. I said Whats up? he wanted me 2 knoww i was on his mind and he couldnt sleep & thinkin about me and i said ok; 8am same dy he texted again asked if i missed him or do i like bein apart better? He dropped by for a bit and we talked he cried very hard and said he didnt mean ne of it and he missed me so bad and his friends house was such a dump an he kept thinkin what was so bad whyd i leave? and was sobbing crying saying even if we dont work out i didnt deserve anything he said or did and i ws right about the withdrawals even tho i knew that and theres absolutely no excuse 4 wat he said or did, and im not letting him treat me like trash especially on my b-day 3 weeks ago i asked him to cuddle he said he didnt want to and to shut the **** up i was crying & so hurt on my 25th bday he didnt even care or apologize. After the latest incident he finally understands im done with his attitude, obviouisly withdrawals are hard and are not gonna just go away so both parties will have to work very hard at this. i wiish every1 the very best, never give up! and done turn on one another its really not their fault itd be a shame to throw away a marriage bc of this. These things are evil and the FDA so too for creating such a beast. anything that makes your body do and feel these things is terrible. And the back pain only gets worst but you put that to the side to DT detox properly. PLEASE ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR HELP TO MAKE BETTER WOULD BE WONDERFUL. ANYTHING TO EAT OR DRINK MAYBE...THANK YALL AND HANG IN THERE. IF I CAN HELP IN ANYWAY JUST LET ME KNOW. LEAVE YOUR EMAIL IF SO